If the only time you are using your toys are when your partner is away, or when you’re not being satisfied with your sex life, then you’re missing out on an opportunity for fun and an enhanced sex life. There are many toys that you can use to revamp your sexual experiences.
Probably one of the best toys you can use on your female partner is a vibrator that hits both the clitoris and the G-spot. These toys really common, so they are available in many stores, and are great for partners who need something that fits to the body to increase mobility for other actions in bed.
In addition to vibrators, another common (yet often overlooked) sex toy is the cock ring. There are multiple kinds of cock rings, but one that enhances both partners’ sex lives is versatile and able to go from the males cock to a strap-on. If they are vibrating it add an extra flare to the already fun toy, and can encourage pleasure for both partners.
If you’re into BDSM or impact play, possibly a crop is the best way to go for you. Usable on any gender, the crop can make your sex life interesting through safe and playful dominance. Use it to hit the fleshy parts of your partner, and remember to always use a safe word.
If you’re looking for constant penetration throughout the day, as a way of teasing your partner for what’s to come, try out a pair of underwear that you can insert a dildo into- any dildo of your choice! This can be fun for partners who are into extreme foreplay, and who want to have something to encourage sexy messages or glances to their partner while in public.
On that same note, you can also purchase underwear that allows you to insert a remote controlled vibrator, so that the male partner can control the length and power of the vibrating sensation while sitting across from you at a restaurant. Vibrating panties are a great way to get your partner excited about what will happen after dinner!
If you’re looking for something to heighten sensations, a blindfold might be the best way to go. Be sure to use the correct materials for sensation play, such as edible and safe hot waxes, lubes, massaging oil, etc.
If you are into the sex you are having as a couple now, but are feeling uncomfortable when giving oral sex kneeling on the floor, or when being penetrated behind, you have options; try investing in a wedge pillow that gives you or your partner a bit of elevation or padding for a better position.
Overall, if you want to find something that works for you or your partner’s experience, try to go with them to a local store or browse online together. This way, you are discussing the dynamics of the sexual relationship once the toy is purchased, as well as coming up with new and exciting ways to make your sex life as interesting as it can be!